Episode 47: How to Curse Like a F*cking Lady
Why is cursing still considered so effing unladylike, and how does swearing affect how women are heard? Caroline and Cristen decode the unspoken gender in our taboo talk with Australian linguist Kate Burridge who knows pretty much everything you’d ever wanna know about allegedly ‘filthy’ language. Then, Egyptian-American feminist author Mona Eltahawy flexes the patriarchy-smashing power of profanity.
Correction: In a slip of the tongue, we originally referred to Rep. Rashida Tlaib as a “representative from Minnesota.” While we know Minnesotians probably love her too, we’ve corrected that portion so the representative is properly represented as Michigan Rep. Rashida Tlaib.
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Burridge, Kate. The ‘c-word’ may be the last swearing taboo, but doesn’t shock like it used to. The Conversation. Feb. 17, 2016.
Byrne, Emily. Swearing Is Good for You: The Amazing Science of Bad Language. W.W. Norton & Co., 2018.
Bryne, Emily. There’s a Swearing Double Standard—and Women Can Change It. Elle. March 21, 2018.
Dehn, Justin. U.S. Rep. Beto O’Rourke lets f-bombs fly on the campaign trail. The Texas Tribune. Sept. 28, 2017.
Eltahawy, Mona. I wear to make the patriarchy uncomfortable. And I’m proud of it. NBC News. May 6, 2018.
Fagersten, Kristy Beers. Who’s Swearing Now? The Social Aspects of Conversational Swearing. Newcastle-upon-Tyne: Cambridge Scholars Publishing, 2012.
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Power, Lis et al. Rep. Rashida Tlaib cursing got 5 times more coverage on cable news than Rep. Steve King embracing white supremacy. Media Matters. Jan. 11, 2019.
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